Monday, February 10, 2014

The Right Fit

Why am I purple and green?  My sweater is red, and my room is not purple, hmmm. Moving on :)  I love the concept of each person, each soul, each talent, and each creation is unique.  There really is no competition or comparison at all.  We are not in the middle of the Olympics, and what they are looking for is certain skills performed correctly with some personal flair.  Each person is going to bring their best, and the one that does it correctly in that moment will get the gold.  I guess it is really a test of nerve control, breath, and putting on a show.


When we look for a partner in life, we are looking for the right fit, I always like to say Pros vs. Cons. We are all individuals, so there will always be some friction, but that friction is a spark that is necessary, it keeps things challenging and interesting.

In the work place as well, there are so many doctors, lawyers, massage therapists, you name it. We are going to choose what resonates with us, its a connection, its a feeling, it just works no question.


I feel blessed to know deep down that I have a gift of being present.  For some people that gift is too intense, sometimes it is hard to deal with the present.  In other areas like my Yoga classes and with my Doula clients, being present is really the only way you can really connect and experience it to the fullest.  I feel blessed for my gift, but I know that everyone is looking for their right fit and it might not be me and I am OK with that.  My energy is very precious, my family gets all of it, and I recharge with my work.  If it is not the right fit instead of being recharged the opposite may occur, feeling drained, feeling that the connection is off, and our gut is always right.

When things don't work out, feel blessed that more doors will open.  Relationships, connections, and just the right fit will occur when you are genuine and open.

Coach Yulia
  

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