It's Hard to say NO

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I want to do it all, I want to squeeze everything in, I want to make everyone happy, and sometimes I can accomplish this.  Most of the time the running around itself is stressful, but it feels so good to get it all done. I am working on being really clear with everyone about their day and time and then scheduling my day. Most of the time I am super flexible and actually love last minute stuff, if I can do it, why not, whatever it is, sub a class, pick up a gig especially if I can bring kids along if they are with me.  For some reason this week has been full of appointments for me, graduation for my big boy, dentist and doctor check ups for the kids.  For some reason it has also been the week where I was unable to accommodate last minute requests because it would have completely thrown off my day and my plan.  It is so hard for me to say no, I really want to figure out how to say yes, but ultimately it felt good to get done what I planned, and just to be clear, honest, and stay in touch.

This was the last day of school for my kids, we went after to a store to buy charts and stickers, we are starting tomorrow.  I have been explaining to them all week how it works, we will see how it goes, I feel like my communication with them has become much better, Thank You Joanna Bekhor Missry, she has such a gift with kids, find her on Facebook or give her a call for a consultation, 323.696.1826.

Then we went to a dentist checkup for my older two, and then ran home, and off to my class in the evening.  On the way home I ran out of gas closeby, luckily it all worked out, the night felt good the moon was beautiful, and I felt grateful no kids were with me, and I was done with everything and on my way home.  Very little cars on the road where I stopped, easy for them to go around me, on the main road there were a lot of cars, and only one person asked if I was OK.

Home Now,

Tons to do,

Home with kids all day,

Friends coming over for Shabbat dinner tomorrow night,

Seriously all these problems are good problems,

Feeling grateful,

Coach Yulia