Journey of a Soul

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It is not fair when a child has to suffer, I was honored to have this amazing girl as a student of mine in PE, and she left a strong impression wherever she went.  Never at a loss for words, always the leader of the pack, as uncomfortable as she was, she was comfortable in her own skin.  I was talking to a fellow mom that was telling me that she refused to wear a wig, stood tall and proud on her own journey, and faced her circumstances with strength and bravery.

Right before Purim this year the girls played a prank on me, they kiddingly started bullying a girl that usually does not get bullied, I thought it was weird, but they wouldn't stop saying really mean things. Chaya had a mischievous look on her face, I know she was cracking up inside as she was being as mean as possible as a joke.  When I had no choice but to go to the principals office for help, the girls started singing and laughing and were hoping I was not upset at the prank.  I told them I was relieved that it was on purpose and they were really not that mean to each other.

It is amazing what a presence she was, and for the little time that I knew her, I know she made such an impression to everyone she came across.  It is unbelievable that she is gone, and really sad, but this was her journey in this world.  It is unfair and it makes no sense, I just know that she lived her life to the fullest and was deeply loved by her family, friends, and community.

My mother is a light in this world, she is a musician, she is a scholar, and she is a happy soul.  I am blessed to have these qualities genetically transmitted as well as being surrounded by her energy and presence as I was growing up.  I personally have not had any tragic deaths, so I do not know this pain, Thank God.  My mother has a very healthy view of the journey of our soul in a lifetime, and I also have the same perspective.  There is birth and death, and life is what we do in between, and I fully accept that this is how it works.  My father in law passed away a few years ago after a very long illness and poor health, and I was grateful that he was not suffering anymore.  He is blessing us all and watching over us from above.

Be grateful for the people your life,

Genuine Relationships,

Full out love and support,

Accepting and Respecting yourself and others,

Live Life To The Fullest,

Enjoy Every Moment,

These are the lessons that I take away from this brave girl,

Coach Yulia