Monday, May 19, 2014

Raising a Girl

These are important messages for boys and girls, but in our society girls are the ones bombarded of what it is to be sexy, and how to dress, and how to follow, and how to express their sexuality.  Today I have been seeing many articles that make me stop and think how important it is to give our daughters the right messages.  I was very lucky to be a very innocent child, and I am happy that so far, overall my kids thoughts and words about what they see around them is hilarious because it is such an innocent perspective.  There is a big billboard on the mall nearby of a man that is shirtless near a bathtub.  My daughter squeals with delight as she proclaims, "look, he is taking a bath!"

The funny thing is people who know me are laughing because I grew up in Miami where it is hot and it is always sundress, shorts, and bathing suit season.  Also in my performance years, I was having fun Vegas style, and it was great.  I have always been a person that likes to be appropriate for wherever I am, in Yoga I am in Yoga plants and a workout shirt, and to the synagogue I am in appropriate modest dress with a skirt and long sleeves.

I found these articles interesting as I have a four year old girl and want to send her messages of self confidence, having fun being herself, but also knowing what is private, special, and hidden.

http://www.dailylife.com.au/life-and-love/parenting-and-families/stop-asking-my-daughter-to-give-you-a-kiss-20130806-2rbp2.html


January 5 

Muhammed Ali's advice to his daughters...
An incident transpired when Muhammad Ali’s daughters arrived at his home wearing clothes that were quite revealing.

Here is the story as told by one of his daughters:
“When we finally arrived, the chauffeur escorted my younger sister, Laila, and me up to my father’s suite. As usual, he was hiding behind the door waiting to scare us. 
We exchanged many hugs and kisses as we could possibly give in one day.

My father took a good look at us. Then he sat me down on his lap and said something that I will never forget. He looked me straight in the eyes and said, “Hana, everything that God made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to. Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground, covered and protected.
Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected in a beautiful shell.

Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine, covered over with layers and layers of rock. You've got to work hard to get to them.”

He looked at me with serious eyes. “Your body is sacred. You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too.” From the book: More Than A Hero: Muhammad Ali's Life Lessons Through His Daughter's Eyes.


Look below for my oldest boy on his own running to the front of the parade yesterday,
Coach Yulia

My son along with his friends leading his school in the big parade yesterday, so proud :)

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