Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Shidduch


Everything in life is a Shidduch, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shidduch, a match, a connection, a good fit.  Did you notice that I didn't say a perfect fit? Perfect does not really exists, it would be boring, no room for growth, ultimately its pros vs. cons.

Today I started my day with a beautiful Brit Mila, one of my Prenatal Yoga clients had a baby boy eight days ago.  One of the greetings is Mazel Tov, and the other one is may we meet again, only Simchas, happy celebrations.  I love running into different people from our greater Jewish community, and meeting new friends.  Whenever I tell people about my Doula work, I say it is like a Shidduch, the client and I need to connect, and I hire them as much as they hire me.  Today I met a beautiful girl, she is single, we are all trying to find the right match for my amazing brother in law.  It is a feeling in your gut, it is common interests, common goals for the future, and also just really getting each other.

All I know that the right match exists in every area of life.  Before I got married I saw all of my good friends who were strong, beautiful, and accomplished finding partners that accepted, respected, and weren't intimidated by their fierce energy.  I also feel that there is a big pool, and staying open, searching, and knowing although rare among the many, the "good" ones are out there.  It is interesting for me to say that now because I am surrounded by good, real, happy, and I feel so blessed that it is my reality.

Keep searching my friends,
work, relationships, clients, good fit for your kids,
We are blessed to be in a world where there are options,
and anything is possible,
at least believe that,
Coach Yulia

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